Get clear, parent-focused steps for blocking abusive users, reporting cyberbullying on social media and apps, saving evidence, and deciding when to involve a school or platform.
Tell us whether the abuse is happening now, happened recently, or you want to prevent it from escalating, and we’ll guide you through practical next steps for blocking, reporting, and supporting your child.
If your child is being harassed online, start by helping them stop contact without escalating the situation. Block the abusive account, mute replies if needed, and turn on privacy settings that limit who can message or comment. Before anything is deleted, save screenshots, usernames, dates, links, and message details. Then report the abuse through the app, game, or social platform using the most accurate category available, such as harassment, bullying, threats, or abusive comments. If the messages involve a classmate or affect your child at school, keep a copy of the evidence to share with school staff.
If abusive messages or comments are still coming in, help your child block the user right away. On many platforms, you can also restrict, mute, or limit who can contact them.
Use the in-app reporting tools for abusive comments, direct messages, fake accounts, or repeated harassment. Reporting creates a record and may trigger review by the platform.
Take screenshots and note usernames, dates, and links before blocking or deleting anything. This can help if you need to report cyberbullying to a school or follow up with the platform.
If the online harassment involves classmates, affects your child’s school day, or continues across school-related spaces, share documented evidence with the appropriate school contact.
If a report is denied but the abuse continues, submit another report with clearer evidence, use a different reporting category if appropriate, and review the platform’s safety and appeals options.
If messages include threats of violence, sexual exploitation, blackmail, stalking, or pressure to self-harm, treat it as urgent and contact the relevant authorities or emergency support right away.
Children often worry they caused the abuse or made it worse by speaking up. Calm reassurance helps reduce shame and makes it easier for them to keep asking for help.
After blocking, check who can message, comment, tag, add, or follow your child. Small setting changes can prevent repeat contact from the same person or their friends.
Agree on what your child should do if the bully returns through a new account, group chat, or app: do not engage, save evidence, tell you, and report again.
Help them stop contact first by blocking the user, muting or restricting if available, and changing privacy settings. Save screenshots and account details before content disappears, then report the abuse through the platform.
Keep your evidence, review the platform’s reporting categories, and submit a follow-up report with clearer screenshots, links, and dates. If the harassment involves classmates or affects school, share the documentation with school staff as well.
If the abuse is active, blocking quickly can protect your child from more messages. Just make sure to save evidence first whenever possible, since screenshots, usernames, and links may be important for reporting.
Most kids apps and games have in-app safety tools for blocking, muting, and reporting chat, usernames, or player behavior. Look for settings, profile menus, or help centers, and document what happened before taking action.
Report it to the school when the person is a classmate, the behavior affects your child’s learning or attendance, or the harassment spills into school relationships, group chats, or school-related activities.
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