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If you think your child may be experiencing cyberbullying, start by staying calm and making space for them to talk. Let them know they are not in trouble and that you will work through this together. Save screenshots, messages, usernames, and dates before blocking or reporting. Review privacy settings, limit contact with the person involved, and document any impact on your child’s mood, sleep, school attendance, or friendships. If the behavior involves classmates, threats, harassment, or repeated targeting, contact the school and ask about their reporting and safety process. If there are threats of harm, sexual exploitation, stalking, or sharing of explicit images, report it immediately to the platform and law enforcement.
Watch for sudden sadness, anger, anxiety, or withdrawal after using a phone, gaming platform, or social app. Some children become unusually secretive or distressed when notifications appear.
A child who is bullied online may not want to go to school, participate in activities, or interact with peers. They may say they feel sick, ask to stay home, or stop talking about friends.
Cyberbullying can affect sleep, concentration, appetite, and self-esteem. You may notice falling grades, irritability, loss of interest in favorite activities, or negative self-talk.
Take screenshots and save links, usernames, and timestamps. Use in-app reporting tools and keep a record of every report you submit in case the behavior continues.
Help your child block accounts, tighten privacy settings, review who can message them, and pause contact where needed. On gaming and social platforms, check chat, friend, and comment controls.
If the bullying involves classmates or affects your child’s school life, contact a counselor, teacher, or administrator. Ask how incidents are documented, investigated, and addressed.
Children are more likely to open up when they know you will help rather than immediately take away devices. Start with curiosity and reassurance.
Ask who was involved, what happened, where it happened, how often it has happened, and whether anyone else has seen it. This helps you understand the pattern without overwhelming your child.
Discuss what your child wants support with right now, such as reporting, blocking, telling the school, or taking a break from certain apps. Collaborative planning helps rebuild a sense of control.
Start by listening calmly and reassuring your child that they did the right thing by telling you. Save evidence such as screenshots, messages, usernames, and dates. Then review privacy settings, block or limit contact if appropriate, and decide whether to report the behavior to the platform, school, or law enforcement based on severity.
Most social media, messaging, and gaming platforms have built-in reporting tools for harassment, impersonation, threats, and abusive content. Submit the report with screenshots if possible and keep a record of what you sent. If the person is a classmate or the bullying affects school, report it to the school as well. If there are threats, stalking, blackmail, or explicit images, contact law enforcement immediately.
Usually, no. Taking away devices right away can make some children less likely to tell you what is happening in the future. Focus first on safety, documentation, privacy settings, blocking, and reporting. Temporary changes to app access may help in some situations, but it is best to explain them as part of a support plan rather than a punishment.
Often, yes, especially if the bullying involves classmates or affects your child’s ability to feel safe at school, attend class, or participate in activities. Schools vary in policy, but many will document concerns, investigate peer conflict, and put support or safety measures in place.
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