If you are noticing hurtful messages, exclusion, fake accounts, or repeated harassment online, get clear next steps for what to do, how to support your child, and when to report or block the behavior.
Share what you are seeing so you can get practical parent guidance tailored to your child’s situation, including signs to watch for, how to document incidents, and ways to respond calmly and effectively.
If your child may be getting bullied on social media, start by staying calm and making space for them to talk. Avoid telling them to simply ignore it or immediately take away their phone, which can make them less likely to share what is happening. Focus on understanding where the harassment is happening, who is involved, how often it occurs, and whether there are threats, impersonation, or sexual content. Save evidence before posts disappear, review privacy settings together, and consider blocking and reporting the account. If there is any risk of self-harm, threats, stalking, or sharing of explicit images, treat it as urgent and seek immediate support.
They seem upset, anxious, angry, or withdrawn after checking social apps, or they suddenly avoid talking about what happened online.
They stop using a platform they used to enjoy, create new accounts, hide screens quickly, or become unusually distressed by notifications.
You notice sleep problems, reluctance to go to school, falling grades, friendship conflicts, or fear that embarrassing content is spreading.
Take screenshots, save URLs, note usernames, dates, times, and platform details. Keep a simple record in case the content is deleted or you need to report it.
Use the platform’s tools to block cyberbullies, report harassment, impersonation, threats, or non-consensual sharing, and tighten privacy settings to limit contact.
Reassure them it is not their fault, make a plan for who they can go to, and involve the school or other adults when the harassment affects daily life or safety.
Act quickly if messages include threats, stalking, extortion, or pressure to meet in person. Preserve evidence and contact the platform and local authorities when needed.
If explicit images are being shared, your child is being sexually harassed, or a fake account is targeting them, seek immediate help and do not keep this to yourselves.
If your child shows signs of panic, hopelessness, self-harm, or talks about not wanting to be here, get urgent mental health support right away.
Start by listening without blame, saving evidence, and checking whether there are threats or sexual content. Then help your child block the account, report the behavior on the platform, and decide whether the school or another authority should be involved.
Most platforms let you report posts, messages, profiles, impersonation, and harassment directly in the app. Save screenshots first, then use the platform’s reporting tools and keep a record of what you submitted and when.
Not as a first step in most cases. Removing access too quickly can make children less likely to share what is happening. It is usually better to document the bullying, adjust privacy settings, block offenders, and build a support plan together.
Use calm, specific questions such as what happened, where it happened, and how it made them feel. Reassure them they are not in trouble and that your goal is to help them feel safe, not to punish them for being online.
It can include repeated insults, rumors, exclusion, fake accounts, impersonation, posting embarrassing content, threats, harassment in group chats, or sharing private images or information to humiliate a child.
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