If your child or teen seems deeply sad, withdrawn, hopeless, or is talking about suicide, you may be wondering what the signs mean and what to do next. Get clear, parent-focused guidance for child depression, teen depression, and suicidal thoughts.
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Parents often search for help when a child or teenager seems depressed and starts saying things that sound hopeless, self-harming, or suicidal. These concerns can be hard to interpret, especially when mood changes, irritability, sleep problems, school struggles, or isolation have been building over time. This page is designed for parents looking for support with teen depression and suicidal thoughts, child depression and suicidal thoughts, and what to do if a child has suicidal thoughts and depression. You do not have to sort this out alone.
Ongoing sadness, irritability, hopelessness, crying, anger, loss of interest, pulling away from friends or family, or saying they feel like a burden can all be signs of depression and suicidal thoughts in teens and children.
Statements like "I wish I wasn’t here," "No one would care," "I want it to stop," or direct talk about suicide should always be taken seriously, even if your child later says they did not mean it.
Changes in sleep, appetite, energy, hygiene, grades, concentration, or increased risk-taking can signal that depression is worsening and that your child may need prompt support.
If you are worried, ask clear and caring questions about depression, self-harm, and suicidal thoughts. Direct questions do not put the idea in a child’s mind and can open the door to honest conversation.
Stay close, do not leave your child alone if safety feels uncertain, and secure medications, sharp objects, cords, ropes, firearms, and other possible means of self-harm.
Reach out to your child’s pediatrician, therapist, school counselor, or a local mental health provider. If there is immediate danger, call 988 in the U.S. or go to the nearest emergency room.
A child with depression and suicidal ideation may need a different level of support depending on age, symptoms, what they are saying, and whether there is a current safety risk. Some families need help understanding whether they are seeing warning signs. Others need immediate direction because their child is depressed and talking about suicide. The assessment can help you organize what you are noticing and point you toward the most appropriate next steps.
Built for parents concerned about depressed teenagers, children with depression, and suicide-related thoughts rather than general parenting stress.
Get practical guidance on what to watch for, when to seek urgent help, and how to support your child in a calm, steady way.
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Take it seriously right away. Stay with your child, ask direct questions about what they mean, reduce access to anything they could use to hurt themselves, and contact immediate support. In the U.S., call or text 988 if you need urgent crisis guidance, or go to the nearest emergency room if safety is at immediate risk.
Common signs include hopelessness, withdrawal, irritability, major sleep or appetite changes, loss of interest, falling school performance, self-harm, giving away belongings, or talking about death, disappearing, or being a burden. A sudden shift after a long period of depression can also be concerning.
Yes. Child depression and suicidal thoughts can happen in younger children as well as teens. Warning signs may look different by age, but statements about wanting to die, disappear, or hurt themselves should always be taken seriously.
Use a calm, nonjudgmental tone, listen more than you speak, ask direct and simple questions, and avoid minimizing their feelings. Focus on safety, closeness, and getting professional support quickly. You do not need to have perfect words to be helpful.
It is an emergency if your child has a plan, access to means, has tried to hurt themselves, cannot commit to staying safe, is severely agitated, intoxicated, or you believe they may act soon. In those situations, call 988, 911, or go to the nearest emergency department.
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