If your child is lighting fires, trying to start one, or making threats involving fire, it can be hard to know whether this is unsafe behavior or an emergency. Get clear, immediate guidance on when to call 911, what to do right now, and how to protect everyone in the home.
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A child or teen playing with matches, lighters, paper, clothing, bedding, trash, or flammable liquids can create immediate danger even if they say they were "just curious" or "didn't mean to." Call 911 right away if a fire has started, smoke is building, anyone is trapped, your child is actively trying to light something, or they are threatening to burn a person, pet, room, vehicle, or building. Emergency help is also appropriate if your child cannot or will not stop, is acting aggressively, is impaired, or has access to materials that could spread fire fast.
Call 911 if anything is already burning, smoldering, smoking, or at risk of catching. Small fires can escalate in seconds, especially around bedding, curtains, paper, trash, garages, or fuel.
If your child or teen is holding a lighter, matches, fireworks, or another ignition source and is trying to start a fire, treat it as an emergency if you cannot safely stop the situation immediately.
Call 911 if your child is threatening to burn the home, hurt someone with fire, lock themselves in a room with ignition materials, or if anyone nearby is unable to get to safety quickly.
Move everyone away from the fire risk area and leave the building if there is smoke, flames, or uncertainty about safety. Do not stay inside to argue, search for items, or keep negotiating near the hazard.
Do not physically struggle over matches, lighters, gasoline, or fireworks if that could increase danger. Focus on creating space, warning others, and calling 911 if the risk is immediate.
Tell 911 what was lit or threatened, whether there is active fire or smoke, what materials are nearby, whether anyone is inside, and whether your child has access to more ignition sources or flammable items.
Even if the fire setting happened earlier today or in the last few days, take it seriously if your child has repeated the behavior, hidden burn marks, burned objects in secret, talked about wanting to destroy property, or shown poor impulse control around fire. Repeated fire setting, escalating behavior, or fascination with burning can signal a serious safety concern. Use the assessment to sort out whether this points to emergency risk now, urgent same-day action, or a safer next step.
If your child keeps setting fires, experimenting with burning objects, or returning to matches and lighters after consequences, the risk is higher and may require immediate safety planning.
Burned paper in bedrooms, scorch marks, hidden lighters, or attempts to burn larger items can mean the behavior is becoming more dangerous, even if no major fire has happened yet.
Statements about burning the house, setting someone’s belongings on fire, or using fire during anger or revenge should be treated as urgent warning signs.
It is an emergency when there is active fire, smoke, immediate risk of ignition, a threat to burn someone or something, inability to stop the behavior safely, or danger to people, pets, or property. If you are unsure and the risk feels immediate, call 911.
Yes, if anything is actively burning, producing smoke, or could spread quickly, call 911. A small fire can become dangerous fast, and emergency responders can help protect everyone in the home.
You may still need urgent help if the behavior happened within the last few hours or days, especially if it was repeated, hidden, involved threats, or included dangerous materials. The assessment can help you decide whether this points to emergency action or another immediate next step.
Only if you can do so safely without escalating the situation. If your child is agitated, threatening, or already trying to ignite something, prioritize distance, getting others to safety, and calling 911 rather than physically struggling over the item.
Not always. Some situations are better handled with close supervision, removing ignition sources, and follow-up support. But if there is active fire setting, repeated unsafe behavior, threats, or any immediate danger, emergency help may be appropriate.
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