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Whether you want prevention tips only or need help responding to suspicious contact, sexual pressure, or threats to share photos, this short assessment can help you focus on the next right steps.
Online predators often build trust slowly through games, social apps, direct messages, or secret conversations. Sextortion happens when someone pressures a child or teen to send sexual images, then uses threats, shame, or blackmail to demand more images, money, or silence. If your child may be involved, stay calm, avoid blaming them, save evidence, stop direct contact with the offender when possible, and begin reporting through the platform and law enforcement.
Your child suddenly hides screens, deletes messages, uses new accounts, or becomes defensive when asked who they are talking to.
Look for anxiety, panic, shame, sleep problems, withdrawal, or intense distress after checking messages or social media.
Predators may flatter, isolate, offer money or gifts, ask to move chats off-platform, or request sexual images, video, or private conversations.
Talk regularly about online relationships, manipulation, and sexual pressure so your child knows they can come to you without losing support.
Review privacy settings, friend lists, location sharing, livestream habits, and app permissions. Encourage teens to keep accounts private and avoid chatting with unknown people.
Agree in advance on what to do if someone asks for sexual images or threatens to share them: stop responding, take screenshots, tell a trusted adult, and report immediately.
People committing sextortion often continue demanding more. Paying or pleading usually does not make the threat stop.
Save usernames, messages, images of threats, payment requests, account links, and timestamps. This can help platforms and police act faster.
Report the account on the app or platform, contact local police or a cybercrime reporting channel, and focus on your child’s emotional safety and reassurance.
Children and teens often feel terrified, embarrassed, or convinced they caused the situation. Reassure your child that manipulation by an offender is never their fault. Keep your response steady and practical: reduce immediate risk, document what happened, report the offender, and stay close emotionally. Many families also benefit from school support, counseling, or a trusted mental health professional if the child is overwhelmed, panicked, or afraid to return online.
Sextortion is when someone pressures or tricks a child or teen into sharing sexual images or information, then threatens to expose them unless they send more images, money, or continue contact. Prevention starts with open conversations, private account settings, caution with unknown contacts, and a clear family rule that your child should tell you right away if anyone asks for sexual content.
Use a calm, matter-of-fact tone. Focus on manipulation tactics, not shame. Let your teen know that smart kids can still be targeted, and that if anything happens, your first job is to help, not punish. Short, ongoing conversations usually work better than one big lecture.
Tell your child not to respond further, not to pay, and not to send more images. Save screenshots and account details, report the content and account on the platform, and contact police or the appropriate reporting agency. Stay with your child emotionally and reassure them that the threats are part of the abuse.
Gather evidence first, including usernames, messages, screenshots, links, and dates. Then contact your local police department or cybercrime reporting channel. If there is immediate danger, call emergency services. You can also report the account directly to the app, game, or social platform involved.
Common signs include secretive device use, sudden distress after messaging, unexplained gifts or money, requests to switch to private apps, sexualized conversations, and fear that something embarrassing will be shared. A sudden change in mood or online habits can be an important clue.
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