If your child or teen is violent, threatening harm, or dangerously out of control, it can be hard to know when emergency services are the right next step. Get clear, parent-focused guidance on when to call 911, when to seek urgent crisis help, and how to respond safely at home.
Start with whether there is immediate danger right now, then we’ll help you understand when calling 911 may be appropriate, what to do while waiting for help, and what steps to take if the danger has passed.
Call 911 right away if your child or teen is dangerous to themselves or others, has a weapon, is making a credible threat they may act on, is seriously assaulting someone, or you cannot keep people safe. Emergency services are appropriate when there is an urgent risk of injury and the situation cannot be safely managed at home. If possible, move other children away, keep distance, avoid physical confrontation unless necessary for immediate safety, and give the dispatcher clear details about the behavior, any weapons, injuries, and mental health concerns.
Call 911 if your child is threatening to hurt someone and has the means, intent, or behavior suggesting the threat could happen now.
If your child is attacking family members, destroying property in a way that creates danger, or cannot be redirected, emergency help may be needed.
Call 911 if your child is dangerous to self or others, including suicidal behavior, severe self-harm risk, or aggression that could cause serious injury.
Say exactly what is happening right now: who is at risk, whether anyone is injured, and whether your child is violent or out of control.
Let dispatch know if your child has autism, ADHD, trauma history, a psychiatric diagnosis, sensory needs, or difficulty with police interaction.
Tell them if there is a weapon, possible overdose, intoxication, head injury, or anything else that changes the urgency or response needed.
Even if you do not need to call 911 right now, a recent violent episode can still require same-day help. Consider a mobile crisis team, your child’s psychiatrist or therapist, an urgent behavioral health line, or the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline if there is concern about self-harm, severe emotional distress, or another crisis building. If you are unsure whether the situation is serious enough for emergency services, answering a few questions can help you sort out the safest next step.
Get focused guidance for violent child behavior, aggressive teen behavior, and moments when a child crisis may require emergency services.
Learn what to do while help is on the way, how to reduce immediate risk, and when urgent non-911 support may fit better.
Understand how to document what happened, what follow-up care to seek, and how to reduce the chance of another dangerous escalation.
Yes, if your child or teen is actively violent, someone may be seriously hurt, there is a weapon, or you cannot keep people safe. If the behavior is severe but not creating immediate danger, urgent crisis services may be another option.
Call 911 when the threat appears credible and immediate, especially if your child has access to a weapon, is moving toward the person, has already become physical, or cannot be calmed safely.
Not always. A child being out of control does not automatically require police or emergency response unless there is immediate danger to self or others. The key question is whether anyone is at risk of serious harm right now.
If you are unsure, focus on immediate safety first. If there is any real chance of serious injury, call 911. If the danger is unclear or has passed, personalized guidance can help you decide between emergency services, crisis support, or follow-up care.
Keep as much distance as possible, move siblings and others to safety, avoid arguing or cornering your child, and remove nearby objects that could be used to cause harm if you can do so safely. Stay on the line if instructed and update dispatch if the situation changes.
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